It’s My Birthday!

And I can bitch if I want to.

A few quick links to those who want to show their appreciation by sending Me a little something for My birth month…

Amazon Wishlists:

Clothing – http://amzn.com/w/1J46OHOVTSR54

Toys/Equipment - http://amzn.com/w/325Q1RJWCCN7J

Shoes - http://amzn.com/w/1GVXNY5ED2B76

Instead of gifts, I have been getting amazon.com gift cards in lieu to make My own purchase.

That aside… I am enjoying My vacation. The only time I pick up the phone is to answer a quick scheduling call and inform everyone – and I mean everyone – that I don’t come back for sessions until after the 22nd! It’s bliss to really have these last few days to veg out, catch up on My correspondence, talk to a few faithful slaves I have been keeping a close eye on, and of course.. be with friends and family.

It’s amazing the love and support that you have given Me this past year since I’ve had the blog up. Things in My life are going forward and despite whatever personal issues I may have, I know that I have you always and I’m happy for that. I think a lot of positive things are happening and it’s exciting for Me to be on this journey, especially now that two other great Mistresses are entering My life as friends and business partners.

This partnership is important for many reasons… a strong Dominant fem coalition sharing a space together, all affirming each other’s superiority to the male sex, as well as meshing together in a cohesive play fashion to make amazing BDSM chemistry. These ladies support My goals and I support theirs; so as soon as I come back, I look forward to telling you what happens with these awesome women and Myself.

Thanks to those who have wished Me a happy birthday so far! They’ve been received and I miss you tremendously.

-Mistress

Fantasy Scenarios a la Mistress

Over the past few months, I have had a chance to get close to a fellow Mistress. I admire Her personality, Her playing style, and Her professionalism. She’s friendly and open, and in many aspects much like Me… so I feel comfortable enough to joke around with Her in a way I haven’t in a long, long time with another Dominant Fem. In a way, it made Me happy and miss all the girl talk and getting ready together… and it also made Me appreciate the time I have now with Her.

We were discussing some of Her fantasies very recently and I asked Her to send Me a scenario and I would write a little something up.

The scenario:

2-3 Mistresses, gamblers, taking turns on torturing the subject and putting down bets (I’ll bring chips) on pushing the subject’s limit in different interests. Mistresses will get creative so we will need a masochist for this scenario.

What I wrote:
Imagine yourself in a dimly lit lounge. The only bright lights are there on stage. 

“You think you know your limits?” The words echo from the loudspeaker in a taunting way. I’m sure the words are repeating in his head.

He’s trembling.

He’s cute when he trembles, I think as I look the meat over. I can see a light beading of sweat appear on his brow above the blindfold and for a second I almost think that it’s because it’s warm, but then I realize it’s his nerves getting to him. To My side I hear Mistress Lynn play with the crop in Her hand, in the mood for some pain. To My other side I hear Ms. Hanna squirming in Her chair, anxious for some action regardless of the consequences.

The dull murmur of the crowd in the background is white noise to Us as We observe Our prey. The clink of dinnerware and small sprinklings of laughter as They observe the slave up for auction; some are wrapped up in conversation or their meals, and some simply stare ahead at the thing to be tortured on stage. All of Us are hungry. 

“Now who wants to bid that this thing can last 200 cane strokes from all three of Us?” Mistress Lynn calls and many Dominant women chuckle simultaneously in what sounds like a lioness’s growl. The object flinches at it.  We hear buttons buzzing as bets are being placed. 

It’s a hot fantasy come to life, and it’s all due to Mistress Lynn. Her soft features hide the true sadist, expertly cruel and ready to do some damage at the expense of a man’s life just for a brief thrill. As the final bets are being placed, I look at the slave and smile.

The House always wins.

Realistically, I think the closest this fantasy could come to life is with an audience of 4-5 Dominant women at an intimate get together, with a masochist slave at Our bidding…

Any takers? We have a reputation of playing fair. *chuckle*

The #FootNight Website Strikes Again! I’m on the Front Page!

There I am on the right, My toenails sticking out!

Here’s the link to view more photos of Me and the other girls!

San Diego #FootNight Impressions

So I finally made My way down to the elusive SD FootNight.. I had been meaning to go ever since last year but for some reason I could never make it stick.

The last two FootNights I went to were very dead for Me. OC hardly had any clientele, and the LA one was also light on clients – I only got about 4 sessions in before I called it a night around 10, mainly because I just don’t like standing around with nothing to do, all dolled up.

I was looking forward to San Diego. I heard many things: “Intimate” “cozy” “friendly” “atmospheric.”

Indeed, when I got there ALL the girls were super friendly. It wasn’t that the girls at other parties weren’t nice… they all are… but these SD participants were much more active about getting to know one another, gossipy, and it felt like a little foot fetish sorority house than any foot party I’ve been to before!

Chloe’s HideAway was definitely much more friendly to fetishists as far as the setting and environment. There was less emphasis on dungeon and S&M, and more on couches, the booths were much more private (still a curtain partition) and instead of awkward dungeon furniture or airbeds, there were luxurious couches and loveseats to rest on. If one wanted to go outside, there was a nice fire with chairs all around. There was a bar with a very friendly bartender (who I introduced to Draw Something! Boy, did she ever love that…) It was a VERY spacious venue with lots of room for models to do sessions. There were a proportional amount of clients as well, but many were just hanging around.

Despite looking very glammed up in My finest, My toes looking absolutely delectable, and having been on the front page of the FootNight website only a few weeks prior, I only got two sessions (one lasted 20 minutes).

I didn’t attribute this as a personal failure. I am not a hustler – I do not go to the boys. The boys come to Me. At SD FootNight, many if not all the other girls confronted and approached their potential clients. I was demure, sitting prettily and playing with My phone, content to chat with whoever started a conversation with Me. I did leave around 10 after staying for 3 hours and taking cute pictures of My feet.

I am disappointed. I did go all the way down there expecting a fanfare. A potential client even emailed Me ahead of time to make sure I would be there (he ended up not being able to come.) I am a little surprised but I shouldn’t be – hustlers do make more money short term. I prefer to think long term and My many admirers agree with My strategy… I’m a Dominant, I don’t go willy nilly chasing someone down for something. No, you have to come to ME and ask for it. Perhaps that’s spoiled considering that other ‘Mistresses’ and ‘Pro-Dommes’ were approaching people and it’s Me being stubborn against a tradition, but I can’t do it. It’s just too awkward and not Me.

So you may not see much of Me at Foot Night anymore. I’m scaling back My commitment to be at parties unless I get a specific invitation and at least a confirmation that 2-3 clients will be there for Me. It’s just not worth My time or energy otherwise when I could be doing a lot of other productive things like going out with friends or scheduling appointments.

I will go to the next LA party to hopefully score some awesome pictures by the photographer there, but that may be it for a while as far as foot parties go. I will say this – I highly recommend SD FootNight to any serious foot fetishist. The selection of ladies is very nice, the atmosphere is classy and comfortable, and the privacy of the booths is better than both LA and OC. Everyone is friendly and willing just to have fun and relax. Truly a chill environment.

-Veronica Volt

Having a Blocked List

Some of you may know what I’m talking about when I say “Blocked List”… but to those who don’t, let Me illuminate: My Blocked List is a shared listing of numbers (it can include descriptions and names) of very bad callers and clients that I tell other girls in My circle to avoid.

I take precautions not to answer blocked/restricted numbers for several reasons… one – your identity is safe with Me (besides, you use a fake name anyway), why do you need to call from a withheld number? two – I need a number to refer to and call in case something happens (i.e. the session has to be cancelled, last minute details, etc.) three – it is My one only assurance that you’re for real and that there is a chance the session is going to happen. If you were that concerned about your number and privacy, I recommend getting a prepaid phone from any supermarket or retail store or just getting a google voice number. Not that hard.

Once I do answer the phone calls, I make note of the number. It’s easy for Me to recognize voices and I can tell if it’s the same person calling, even if it’s a different number… you don’t really want to try and make a fool of Me. It just irritates Me… and then I block the number.

A lot of the time I do get missed calls because of My busy schedule. It’s up to you to do the following:

• Leave a voicemail (that’s clear, mention your name and a good time to call – I don’t need specific details).
• Call back at a later time.
• Follow up with an e-mail (veronica volt at gmail dot com)
• Wait up to 36 hours for Me to get back to you… it takes that long sometime and if you really want to see Me for a session, you’ll have to be patient.

Things NOT to do once I do get around and talk to you about setting up a session.

• (Don’t) agree to sending Me an e-mail and then not do it. It irritates Me because I look out for it a few days after discussing it. I will end up labeling your number as a “flake” because you failed to follow instructions. you’re no longer a good boy at that point.
• (Don’t) ever hang up on Me just because you don’t like what you hear. Be a gentleman and say “thank You for Your time, good bye.” Then politely end the call there. No hard feelings.
• (Don’t) be crass and mention sex, nudity, or anything referring to drugs  or alcohol. I set you straight and if you don’t like what you hear or if I feel like it’s not a good match, I’ll just end up blocking your number and putting it on the Blocked List with a detailed description for the other girls to read.
• (Don’t) say one thing on phone and e-mail and then in session, spring something not talked about or negotiated. I view that as topping from the bottom as well as a sneaky tactic to undermine Me from My position. It gets you on the blocked list and a verbal warning to all the girls to watch out for you.
• (Don’t) refer to anything illegal such as prostitution, narcotics, or anything involving children/animals/nonconsent. I understand there are healthy and safe fantasies that can incorporate roleplay and that’s all that I offer… anything REAL in those realms I will not touch. Another example is dildo/strap on/anal stimulation which is technically penetration and illegal in LA County… I suggest that you opt for a safer way of putting it by saying “in the past, I have done that in sessions” or if you have no experience say “I’ve had FANTASIES about something like that..” I will reply in kind that I do toy/strap-on modeling or sissy training. It’s called subtext, and if you can understand subtext, you’re smart enough to make an appointment with Me.
• (Don’t) just think of yourself.
• (Don’t) negotiate a set tribute. you want Me? you want an appointment? you can’t afford it? Save your pennies… you get what you pay for. Trying to haggle a donation is going to get you nowhere – FAST – and ultimately you’ll hang up disappointed and I’ll hang up, annoyed… and then rename you something undesirable to prevent Me from picking up your call in the future.
• (Don’t) forget to confirm by PHONE. Text doesn’t count. If I tell you call at 6:02, you call exactly at 6:02… not 6:05.

Good rule of thumb for callers and people seeking sessions

1. If you’re not a submissive by nature, or if you’re a fetishist, be respectful of the Dominant’s position and be polite. Wait for Her to speak and if She interrupts you, either let Her finish Her train of thought unless She directs you to continue speaking. Think of it like this: you’re the employee and She’s the Boss, and all you want to do is impress your boss to get that big promotion.
2. Follow up with a call if She hasn’t returned your call after 24 hours has gone by.  An e-mail works as well; both together work very well.
3. Plan your session to be a few days in advance ideally; if it’s same day, give Her 3-5 hours notice unless She states otherwise on Her ad/website.
4. Prepare by following this guide, at least when calling Me: http://www.veronicavolt.com/expect/

Don’t expect Me to be rude/domineering on the phone. I am always polite, cordial, and very fun to talk to on the phone… I will treat you first like I would a stranger, unless you designate that you are a “slave”, and then I will subtly talk down to you to get you into that mindset.

Don’t complain that I’m not “dominant enough” on the phone; what you’d be seeking is free domination which I do not offer to strangers that are increasingly pissing Me off.

Be smart, prepare, and be nice. It’s a good tip if you want to impress.

Whips and chains,
Mistress Veronica

Change is in the air

There are times when a frown perseveres and this is one of ‘em. Just bullshit making poor Veronica irritable. But things are otherwise good in Paradise.

My playspace is undergoing fun new changes including the possible addition of two wonderful ladies I would share the space with. Both are marvelous, kind, generous and fun to play with… and most of all, experienced! It’s very important to Me to have a community of Dominant Femmes around for support, rapport, and of course… devious hijinks!

The newsletter has been down for the past few months as there hasn’t been much to report – been off the grid so to speak as I under go different life changes. This has been reflected in different ways to the observant so I won’t spell it out… but I am going back to school this summer and will most likely be attending at least half-time until My educational goal is complete. I feel like if you should ever pick a Dominant, pick one that actively tries to learn (unless your thing is the dumb giggly girl, then by all means, there are plenty of those) or one that has at least done the legwork and gone to a college.

This change will mean that My schedule won’t be as free as it used to be – My time will be restricted to appointments I feel are worth My time in all respects. At the moment, there is an exciting change in the wind for a few of My subs and slaves. One slave I am distance training… slowly testing the waters before I am ready to declare that he has earned the right for a full fledged phone session (and a later goal of sessioning with Me). Another is about to make an honest metamorphosis by including his partner on who he is. Coming out is difficult and while his wife has an inkling of his kinky tendencies, it’s still nerve wracking to tell one partner that they need to see someone outside the marriage to satisfy a kink. I told him to let Me know if he needs anything – he’s one of My favorites and I adore him too much to not support him in his time of need.

Something fun I got to do: tell off some dummy on NiteFlirt! I usually am very patient with many people, especially with the fantasizers on NiteFlirt (because that’s what it is… fantasy to these people. Or at least most of them.) This one fellow calls himself Michael. I discovered this after this last call, but he has called Me at least 8 different times, everytime posing as someone who’s never talked to Me before. And everytime he talks about his small penis (4″ erect), the fact that he likes to be financially dominated, and that… oh yes, he lives in L.A. and he would like to possibly set up a session.

I called it right when I said the first time around that he was a pussy. Ever since then he’s just been a numbskull, never once proving to Me that he’s serious or that he can even back up any of his story. This last call he actually said that he likes to be manipulated to give tributes (on NiteFlirt, there’s a tip system called tributes.) So I said casually, “okay, tribute Me $25.” Without skipping a beat he says, “Sure.” We talked for a few minutes, and then I say again, “Thank Me for that wonderful insight by tributing Me another $25.” At this point I was feeling a little giddy by insulting his useless dick and basically flaunting that he was nothing to not just Me, but any girl except a cash cow. After I upped the ante to 50 dollars, I start to get a little suspicious. I check My NiteFlirt account and lo and behold… no tributes. At all. So I immediately confront him. I was having a shitty last few days so I was in no mood to play around. I was going to grab this dick by the balls and tug until he cried.

He feigned ignorance by claiming he did (he didn’t. At all. Ever.) to which I called his bluff by saying word for word, “I think you’re bullshitting Me. I think you’re just fucking around and that you’re just a small dicked loser with no money making promises you can’t keep. Is this what you do? Call different Flirts and promise them cash while you wank off-”

And it would’ve gone on if he didn’t hang up.

You see, the only people interested in financial domination are the dumb shits who can’t afford it. To which I say, “Do us all a favor and cut off your dicks and use dollar bills as bandages as true poetic justice.”

Usually on NiteFlirt I’m very forgiving of fantasizers until they lead Me to believe that this is something they’re serious about or when they promise Me something (gifts, tributes, feedback) and don’t follow through. Then they’re on My shit list.

I remember there’s this one guy… for some reason or another, I held a secret from him and he would’ve done anything to find out that secret. And I resisted his begging, his constant calling on NiteFlirt AND his texts to My booking line, and his attempts to buy the secret. Until I finally said, “Alright. Buy Me this, this, and this.” I thought it would shut him up because the total amount of the gifts were upwards of $700.

But lo and behold, he bought it. All of it. The 200 dollar leather gloves. The 400 high brand lingerie. The almost 300 dollar Syren latex leggings.

All to find out a worthless secret (man, did he ever have buyer’s remorse. I laughed so much at him.)

So it’s the people you least expect that will surprise you with not just their generosity, but their willingness to be manipulated… and it’s the people who scream that they want it that will never give it and are the hardest to manipulate.

And writing that cheered Me up. Now I’m going to enjoy My night and eat these strawberries.

Q&A About FootNight

A while ago a follower of this blog posed this question under the comments:

“i mean no disrespect, Mistress, i ask this question out of pure ignorance:

i love the idea of attending one of these parties, but one thought popped into my head. When one lucky slave after another gets to worship Your exquisite feet, is there any cleaning of the feet in between? i mean, is the last worshipper of the evening going to be lapping up the traces of untold other tongues from Your soles?”

It brings to light that there are probably more questions on what it’s like for a typical foot party. My experience has only been with the company FootNight, so I can’t speak for other foot party organizations but FootNight has always proven safe, reputable, and never steered Me wrong.

The people who attend the parties are another matter entirely. A corporation can control things so much before human interaction really makes or breaks the place.

1. After a model and a client session, is there cleaning of the feet after?

YES! There is always cleaning. It’s standard etiquette and it’s rude/improper not to offer a model a cleaning. There is an all natural solution of witch hazel (anti-oxidant and astringent) that reportedly doesn’t interfere with the natural odor of feet (I’m skeptical, but it’s better than using bleach or other options.) Tip: Be sure and spray on the paper towels, not the feet… the solution feels cold and unpleasant, unless you wanna be a jerk about it.

It’s supposed to clean absolutely. If you’re concerned about it, you could always bring portable baby wipes and wipe a model’s feet down gently before and after you’re done.

2. Are all clients subs/slaves and are all models Dommes?

No. Even someone with a foot fetish can be a dominant, and even a person offering the service can be a submissive. It’s not one way or another, it’s not 100% formulaic. I’ve gotten run in’s with macho fetishists who want to tell Me what to do. After the session, I respectfully decline any future sessions and if they press Me why – I’ll tell them exactly this: I’m a Dominant – it’s fine if you’re not a submissive, but be very respectful of My position. Same for the models – a lot dabble in Domination, but very few are Lifestyle or true pro’s.

3. Is it out in the open?

It depends on the venue. The Orange County Dragonsgate is a cool venue in that it’s a dungeon but it’s also very spacious. The L.A. venue has some potential but is ultimately lacking in terms of atmosphere and accessibility for booths; no one wants to lay on unstable air beds being peeped on through sheer curtains. It’s also very busy compared to O.C. (more models), but the last time I went in March, the clientele was lacking and it felt more like a bad junior high prom with no one interacting with each other.

4. Do you recommend it?

Yes, if only to satisfy your foot fetish, meet potential Dommes or models you can arrange for private sessions outside of FootNight. My tribute is much more expensive than arranging a session at FootNight. On the flip side, I only do foot sessions at FootNight, not any other aspect of BDSM/Domination. For many, that’s enough; for the few, it’s not – and I recommend this as an adequate litmus test to see whether or not you want to explore in a full length session.

I would suggest FootNight hopefuls to first scope out who’s going to these events by seeing who’s advertised on the model list. Keep in mind that not every model shows up, and some people come late. But there will always be at least one lovely lady there to keep you occupied if your desirable never shows.

5. Is it just for feet?

Technically, yes, that’s what FootNight is all about. I’m sure other forms of domination get done there, but I would never do anything besides something foot-oriented like trampling, worship, and smothering.

6. Do you like it?

I do. All the girls are very friendly toward one another, and We all love doing doubles/triples/multiple girl sessions. In that sense, it is like a party. But We’re all there to network and book sessions, not be each other’s BFFs – so talking is limited between girls and most of the focus is on female-male interactions. Ultimately, I take the attitude of if someone wants a session, they’ll come get it – so I spend much of My time texting/playing games on My phone (because I’m ‘above’ asking boys for sessions.) Don’t be afraid to approach Me – I’m really bored out of My mind and will leave early if I don’t get to play with anyone.

7. What do I have to do?

I suggest you find a service, like FootNight, that arranges a common place for models and admirers to meet. That service comes with a price if you want to find out the location/reserve an invitation – I think it ranges from 60 to 80 for the door fee (models have to pay a marginal fee to get in as well depending on how competitive the space is.) It’s an additional $20/10 minutes to spend time with individual models.

8. Paying, tipping, tribute – what??

It’s good manners to negotiate a scene beforehand. One time a client said he wanted to worship My feet and ended up practically gnawing off My legs. NOT GOOD PROTOCOL. Don’t be shy, say what you want, and ask if she wants the donation up front or after. I always pick up front because of a very bad experience, and I recommend to everyone: just get it out of the way. Tipping is a very nice gesture and you should do it on two occasions: 1. you really like the model and thought she did a great job, or 2. you want to be super flashy with your money. At a party like this, money can evaporate like at a strip club… just not as fast or visible.

Hand the money over in a RESPECTFUL manner, as if she were a cashier and you are just buying a product. One time a client tried to tuck a twenty into My cleavage, and I gave him an earful as soon as I got over My shock. Some of these models may dress like streetwalkers or strippers, but do not, and I mean, do not ever treat a model less than a cultured lady until she has proven to be otherwise with her behavior and attitude.

9. Reserving a booth

When you go to a busy venue, sometimes finding the right spot for the setting of your fantasies coming true is tricky. Lots of times I ended up walking around with a client at the L.A. venue because every good spot was taken. There are no time limits for booths – a single session can last the duration of the party, as long as the guy has the bucks to back it up.

10. Is there any nudity?

Nope.

11. Not even-

None.

12. Can I masturbate/are there men who masturbate?

Probably in their cars or in the restrooms but definitely not in the booths, not in any of My sessions. That behavior is strictly forbidden and is one of the most enforced rules of FootNight – otherwise Vice would be all over those parties. That behavior is for something private, whether you negotiate with a model for an off-site session or it is by yourself.

Don’t be crass and ask for “foot jobs”, or to “cum” on a model’s feet. That’s disgusting and if you ask that to a Domme like Me, be prepared for a thoroughly negative answer. If there is a model there willing to offer that service, be decent enough to be discreet and ask her for her information and consult in PRIVATE.

13. Am I going to get in trouble for being there?

As long as you follow the rules and guidelines AND laws, and are respectful, you’ll be fine.

14. Are they all nice?

They’re people; good, bad, ugly. All the girls will of course be nice. The guys I think will be friendly. I’ve made a few friends there. As long as you’re cool, golden rule applies.

15. Can I approach these models?

Yes, but I wouldn’t recommend eating up their time for more than 5 minutes if you don’t intend to have it segue into a session right away. If a guy sees a model speaking to another man, he won’t approach – so if you don’t book a session with her after speaking for 10-15 minutes, you’re essentially an ass for wasting her time and she’s not going to feel very nice. Be kind – step off if you don’t intend to book. If she talks to you, and keeps on talking, that’s trickier. I’ve never done that. I’m very mindful of time – both mine and yours – so I’ll keep conversation to a minimum if it’s practical.

16. Can I see these girls outside the venue?

You can – it’s up to the model’s discretion. Models like Me have Our own space to work out of and We take appointments in advance only. Other models, perhaps not.

17. Any advice?

Have fun. Don’t feel shy, and if you do, just take a drink of liquid courage and approach a model. I highly recommend low key venues to start out with if you’re panicked at the idea of approaching a model… And also – the power is in the model’s hands … don’t pressure, talk about anything that would make her uncomfortable, and focus on making her happy… chances are, if she’s happy, you’re happy – and then the whole night is great.

I think OC and SD are both BYOB and also offer an assortment of snacks and food to munch on. LA has food and a bar set up (cash bar.)

If there are any more questions, feel free to submit them as a comment below. Otherwise, see you soon in San Diego tomorrow night!!